hello blog readers! one last post for you. i returned to the u.s. a few weeks ago and have had some time to rest and readjust and meet up with friends and family before heading back to walla walla to finish up my senior year.
it was a bit overwhelming to get back to the us the day before christmas eve and really jump into the swing of the holidays and new years, anticipating everything that comes with this new year (a twister of thesis and getting back to whitman academics and graduation and larger questions of post-grad jobs and grad school and on and on). i pulled a lot of strings to be able to study abroad during my senior year and i am being faced with some of the consequences of that choice now. picking up a thesis project i stopped working on about seven months ago has been as challenging as i expected, especially in the fatigue of returning from abroad and the large thesis-sized project i just completed. i left my thesis in more of an open-ended state than i remembered, so i’ll have to straighten that out when i get back to walla walla. anyways, this is all to say i’ve been out of the academic loop and am anticipating a learning curve in getting back into the swing of things.
otherwise, i haven’t experienced any grand moments of reverse culture shock. i was very excited to get to do the things i had been missing, drive my car, pet my dog, eat bagels with cream cheese, wear sweaters and beanies, drink a dirty chai latte, and so forth. i’ve started to miss my time in indonesia more over the last few days as the swirl of this upcoming semester descends upon me and have taken to looking through the photos i took there.
reflections and advice for future sit indonesia goers
it may seem obvious, but try your hand at learning some bahasa indonesian before you get out there. there will be classes, but the language barrier made things so much more stressful and difficult for me, especially in trying to connect with my host family. there were definitely situations that i would’ve gotten a lot more from should i had understood the language even a little bit more. i puttered around on duolingo the summer before i left, but barely. and you can keep using duolingo while you’re there too alongside the classes.
in scouring other blogs about this program and reading over the pre-departure documents, an idea that came up again and again was to “go with the flow” and this is good advice, but it came up in a way i wasn’t expecting. i thought that the flow would be erratic in a fast-paced, spontaneous, don’t-think-just-do way, which is sometimes true, but “go with the flow” emerged mostly in just being patient with a lot of waiting around. i am a pretty schedule-oriented person, and the difference in conceptions of timeliness was frustrating for me. these periods of waiting around and twiddling our thumbs really felt like a waste of my time some days, which was weird, considering we were in such a cool place. there were many times we just had to sit around for a couple of hours, waiting for our presenter of the day to arrive because they were late, or waiting to leave a hotel because of some kind of mix-up with the drivers and so on. the program tries their best, but when we’re partnering with a lot of other folks, we can’t (and shouldn’t) control their timeliness. “bali time” runs about thirty minutes to an hour later than the appointed time. so, patience is key here. i’d recommend bringing a book of sudoku and a deck of cards for all this random downtime.
singapore!
this is no longer rosa in bali but an additional tidbit of travel, so read along as that interests you. a lot of the students on the program didn’t go straight back to the u.s., opting to travel around asia for a bit after the conclusion of the program. my time in jogjakarta definitely prepared me well for the experience i had in singapore where i truly was on my own. i didn’t know anyone in singapore, i had never been to singapore, frankly, i didn’t really even know anything about singapore, so i was really winging it. i got a really good deal at a nice hostel near chinatown; i had a very small room that did not have any windows which was disorienting. that first evening i just walked around, got dinner at a local food court and marveled at how it could be that i was in singapore.
i was there for three full days and managed to get a lot in. when i was in jogja i didn’t do much sightseeing and i was otherwise always moving around with the larger group, so it was nice to be able to do some sightseeing on my own. i basically did lots of walking and visited lots of museums.
on that first day i ambitiously ended up walking about twelve miles. i started by visiting the buddha tooth relic temple that was just a few blocks away from my hostel. it was right by the marketplace in chinatown which i also perused. i didn’t know that singapore had a subway system, but they do! and it is very nice and easy to learn and as someone who has not grown up in an area with a subway system—or a very efficient public transportation system for that matter—it was very fun to figure out and ride! i wanted to get a new journal and i saw there was a moleskine store in singapore, except it was on orchard road which i didn’t realize is a main luxury shopping district in the city so you can imagine my surprise when i got off of the subway and stepped immediately into the basement floor of a huge mall of very very fancy stores. the journal i had in mind ended up being almost $50 anyways so i decided to pass. i then took the subway out to gardens by the bay, one of the only things i knew to visit in singapore. it was, unsurprisingly, very expensive to visit! and also very confusing, lots of different sections and price points. i ended up getting a ticket to the flower dome which was cool but the crowds kind of swayed me away from the experience overall. it started raining at this point so i couldn’t walk around the outdoor parts of the gardens much, plus i was getting grumpy due to a lack of lunch. i told myself i’d go back in the next few days but never managed to. i returned to my hostel, took a nap, went to a café to read, then to a little used bookstore, got some pho for dinner and then bussed out to see the merlion!!!!!!!! a site that i didn’t even realize i really wanted to see until i got there. when i was a kid, my grandma got me a figurine of the merlion which i really liked for some reason so i was really excited to see it myself. i walked around the bay and caught a laser lights show on the water before calling it a day.
the next morning i woke up very disoriented in a very dark room and headed for the red dot design museum, i also went an exhibit at the artscience museum on mental health and, frankly, as someone with a few toes in the museum world, i didn’t really like either of them that much, but maybe i just didn’t really get it. anyways, i walked across the helix bridge and found some barbecue duck at a food court for lunch, stopped by a couple more bookstores, got lost in another mall looking for the famous singaporean kaya toast which i finally got with a delicious, iced coffee. i walked down to the singapore national gallery, sat on their grand front steps, and ate my toast and drank my coffee, which was a nice moment. my day of museums was rescued by an exhibit i visited here. it was a very excellent and inspiring exhibit on sculptures that filled my little cup! at this point, i was too tuckered out to explore the rest of the museum so i vowed to return the next day. back to another food court for a sate dinner and finished day two!
i started out my last full day at a coffee shop that someone i’d met in indonesia recommended to me. i returned to the national gallery and walked through an exhibit on photography in southeast asia. it was far too big of a museum to explore every cranny of, but that is okay. i then had a shamefully expensive bowl of pho for lunch, and then, on a whim, decided to meander up a hill near the pho place, which turned out to be fort canning park, which was the best part of my time in singapore. just as in traveling in a group, when i was traveling alone i found that i had to monitor my mood and adjust my activities accordingly, steering away from hunger-induced grumpiness and the like. and at this point in the day, i really wanted to just lie down. one thing that i missed in indonesia is that they didn’t have very many parks and i realized how much time i spend in that kind of recreational space in walla walla. luckily, i found a very nice patch of grass under some very big trees, took my shoes and socks off and just laid down for a while. there was a delectable breeze and it was the perfect temperature. and when i felt i was ready to go again i took the subway over to the last and coolest museum of my visit, the asian civilization museum. they had exhibits that made it seem that the curator had known the exact intersection of my interests and decided to make a display on it, it was so wonderfully done! perhaps even the best museum i have visited. i then took the train half an hour out of the city center to visit a thai buddhist temple that my dad recommended to me. i miraculously found it and tiptoed in. they were supposed to have a public meditation session that night but long story short i don’t know that i was actually supposed to be there but ended up mediating in this room of strangers for a couple of hours before realizing that probably wasn’t the meditation session i thought it was a tiptoed back out. i got some really spicy indian food for dinner and headed back to my hostel, ready to for a marathon of travel the next morning.
my journey back went by smoothly but even so, twenty-four hours of travel is no joke and i was very grateful to have made it back to seattle. i slept until three pm the next day, which, as mentioned, was also christmas eve. so, being back and reflecting on the semester, there are plenty of lessons learned and moments i am very grateful to have experienced and shared. and i look forward to what further reflections will unravel from this semester in the future.
thank you for sticking with me till the end here and reading this very last post <3