So this is it…goodbye, Sweden

Well. It’s over. As I finish this post, I’m back at home in the US. Before the semester, various people in my life told me four months would go by fast, but I didn’t really take it to heart. The months stretched in front of me, filled with various events: my half marathon, core course week, the long study tour, travel week two, Thanksgiving break… As the semester went on, the events checked off one by one and, day by day, the four months turned into three, then two, then one, then none. At times it felt like I’d been here for so long: I fell into my daily and weekly routines. Looking back, it simultaneously feels like no time has passed but also a lot has. Ultimately, the things that I remember from this semester will, of course, include the big things, the ones that I knew to look forward to. However, many of my memories will also be in the small things, like… -running to catch the train alongside other people, with the feeling of being in the race together even though we don’t know each other
I’m going to miss my walk to the train station
-spending Monday mornings in the 5e corridor week after week with the same friends, under the pretense of doing homework before class but actually just getting distracted and talking about random things -spending my mornings running through the forest near my house, and watching the landscape change through the seasons: at first, it was full of mosquitoes, then orange leaves, then dead trees, and then snow
The forest
-the bus ride to Karolinska on Monday afternoons with my medical simulation lab class, where we’d sit in the back of the bus and talk and play photo roulette and (perhaps) annoy the rest of the passengers with our American-ness -waking up early on sunday mornings to go to running club and seeing the landscape change, but also seeing the same people week after week and getting to know them -week after week spending Saturday (or sometimes Friday) scooping candy out of the bins at the grocery store to fill a bag with loose candy -lunches and fikas at Cafe Oktav (in the DIS building) chatting with friends and eating bread and avoiding our school responsibilities -spending evenings cooking dinner with my host family, being quizzed on my Swedish skills and then eating meals together with a feeling of camaraderie and gentle teasing and caring -having our 10 minute break during precision medicine class, when we’d all go into the kitchen and make tea and talk and laugh about anything that’s not school -drinking glögg with my host mom in the evenings because “it gets you in the Christmas spirit!” and feeling time passing me by
The fika we had on Lucia–lussebullar on a lussebullar napkin!
It’s hard to put into words what my time in Sweden has meant to me, but I’ll leave it like this: it’s been a lovely, memorable semester, and I am so grateful for it. Hej då, Sverige (at least for now).

Snow, Berlin, and my exploration elective

I think it’s safe to say that it is winter in Stockholm. The ground is covered with snow; going outside without a hat and gloves is unadvised; Christmas lights are up and the Christmas markets are open. Honestly, I’m loving this season (except for trying to run on the snow…that’s a bit of a struggle).

The sun sets at 3pm…now what?

Well…it’s finally here: the sun rises after I wake up and sets while I’m still in class. It’s something I’ve been anticipating ever since getting here; I’m used to it being darker in the wintertime, but I can’t say that I’m used to 3pm sunsets. However, it seems like Swedes are, for the most part, well-equipped to handle this change. My host mom told me that November is her favorite month of the year (shocking to me…) because of the darkness and the preparation for Christmas time. I have to say, though, even as I exit the DIS building in the dark each day, I’m not disliking this time as much as I thought I would. It also feels like the darkness is a big part of Swedish culture, and I’m trying to embrace it. That being said, here are some things I’ve noticed Swedes do to thrive in the darkness, plus some things that have been helping me stay happy in this time. Embrace the coziness. I’ve seen this in a few different ways, and I think my host mom is extra good at this. There are always multiple candles lit in the evening, which feels warm and comforting. I’ve also that, rather than turning on the overhead light, often rooms are lit up by the soft glow of lots of nice lamps. In my homestay, embracing the cozy also means keeping a fire in the fireplace, putting on warm slippers or socks, and drinking tea–although it can definitely mean whatever defines cozy to you. I also love the word for cozy in Swedish: mysigt.

Travel week 2 recap

I left Stockholm for 8 days, and in that time, it feels like it changed from fall to winter. The leaves are, for the most part, gone from the trees; it snowed this morning on my run; it’s now dark at 3:30 pm. However, it’s also getting cozy, and it’s (almost) Christmas season. Last week was travel week 2 in the DIS schedule. For those unfamiliar, there are two travel weeks built into the DIS semester. During one of those weeks, you travel with your core course, and the other week you are free to do whatever you’d like! I spent the time visiting a few cities in Italy with friends from my core course. Honestly, if you’d asked me at the beginning of the semester, I’d have said that I would not have expected this trip–it kind of just came together after we were talking in class and discovered we had similar places we wanted to visit. I’m definitely glad to have waited until a little bit into the semester to plan this trip. I think that it allowed time to find people to travel with (who had the same week off) and honestly, it was easier to just wait a while before planning. I had heard before coming to DIS to expect to become close with your core course classmates, but I didn’t really take it to heart. Now, though, I can say that is definitely true. Even beyond the friends from class I travelled with, I think that my core course as a whole is pretty close due to all of the time we’ve spent together. That said, we did a lot in the time we had, and I can’t cover it all…so here are some of the highlights.
We spent the first couple of days in Milan, taking in the sights and walking around (like, a lot of walking). We were there at the same as some other friends from our core course, so we hung out with them a little bit while we were there too 🙂 My favorite parts of Milan:
  1. We took a spontaneous day trip to Lake Como and walked around, took the funiculare up to a city on the top, and (you guessed it) walked around!
  2. We went on top of the Duomo, the big cathedral in Milan–it was definitely worth it to pay the extra to go to the top because you could see the whole city, the mountains, the architecture of the cathedral…it was so pretty.
  3. We ate so much gelato, pizza, and pasta (yum). This theme continued through all of the trip (gelato every day!)

After Milan, we took a train to Florence and spent a few days there. I’d love to go back and spend more time here; the city is so big, and I feel like we only saw a little bit of it. Favorite parts include:
  1. Mercato Centrale: we visited this place three times in the two and a half days we were there (it was that good). There are a bunch of different food vendors that were all pretty affordable and the gelato we got there was perhaps my favorite in all of Italy.
  2. We spent an afternoon strolling through the Boboli gardens, which were huge and full of lots of statues and paths and viewpoints of Florence. We took so many photos here! We also got entrance to the Pitti Palace, but honestly, I think we could’ve skipped it–maybe if you’re very interested in art, but I liked the other gallery we went to more…
  3. The Accademia: basically the most famous gallery in Florence. I especially liked the room full of statues…I feel like I often don’t understand art, but there was more here than just busts of old men (like statues of mothers and their children). It also was pretty affordable to get into (so if you’re going to go to one art museum, I’d say this is the one).

After these cities, we headed to Sorrento and then Naples. Honestly, we didn’t do much in those places besides walking around, exploring, and eating pizza, pasta, and gelato. I’d love to go back to Sorrento/the Amalfi coast in the summertime and go swimming…but that’s a dream for later.
Anyways, it was a fun trip full of sun and friends and good food. However, I’m glad to be back to Stockholm–despite the cold and dark, it felt like coming home, and I’m excited to make the most of what little time I have left here.

Mid semester lessons + goals

Maybe it’s the weather (it’s puffy coat + hat + gloves time), maybe it’s the leaves changing color, or maybe it’s just the realization that I am halfway through the semester, but lately, I’ve been reflecting a lot on my time here in Sweden. It feels like I’ve been here for a lot longer than two months…memories of the summer weather, orientation at the beginning of the semester, and meeting my host family for the first time feel far away. The two months remaining feels like a long time, but that’s only a few more weekends. Amongst all this reflection, I’ve been thinking about what I wish I had known before coming to Sweden. Some are little things and others are bigger things; regardless, I wanted to share some of the practical things that I’ve learned in these past couple of months. Hopefully these can help someone out, but if not, perhaps you’ll chuckle at my naivetie (or at least get a little sense of what life is like here). Firstly, and seasonally appropriate: bring gloves. And a hat, a scarf, and a good winter coat. Make plans/goals early in the semester. This could mean travel plans (although I think those can wait a little bit), but also goals for what to do in Stockholm. If you wait too long (in the fall in particular), it will be cold and then those things might not be as possible. Plus, it will be nice to have a list to refer to when you all of a sudden have a free day…then you won’t be left scrambling wondering what fun things to do(I have been there). The doors at DIS take some getting used to…but you’ll figure it out. Be ready to walk up a lot of stairs (and walk in general). DIS is on the fourth and fifth floors. Also, the metro has a lot of stairs…and I have definitely found myself frantically running up or down them to catch my train. Of course, elevators and escalators are a thing as well. Embrace the commute + the quiet. Honestly, this is one of my favorite parts of Sweden. I look forward to my mornings of looking out the window listening to my music like I’m starring in a dramatic music video. There’s something about the fact that everyone is together, but in their own world; nobody really talks to each other, and I appreciate that time to myself.
This image has an empty alt attribute; its file name is img_8919.jpg Part of my commute includes a short walk to DIS, and the trees really make it feel like fall.
However! There is still half a semester to go. With that, I’ve made some goals/bucket list items I want to do before I return to the US. Hopefully writing down these things will keep me accountable to actually do them–and maybe give some inspiration for activities for others to try. Visit Christmas markets. I am so excited for this! It’s not quite Christmas time yet, but when it is…I’ll be there. I’ve heard Gamla Stan is the place to be. Embrace the coziness and the darkness. In a few weeks it will be dark at 4pm, and all the Swedes I’ve talked to have told me to embrace it. Light the candles, bundle up by the fireplace, drink some tea: cozy. Perfect my Saturday candy combination. Saturday candy = one of my favorite Swedish traditions, and I’m slowly making my way through trying the different types. Somehow I always end up with one or two types that I don’t like, so of course, I have to get new candy every Saturday–for research, of course. Try the cafes on my list. It’s a fun way to explore the city! Currently, Lillebrors Bageri is at the top.
I just tried Cafe Frankfurt in Kungsholmen…if you want a bagel, I’d recommend!
Try winter bathing + sauna. I did my first cold plunge this weekend and it was freezing…I think experiencing the cold water -> sauna would be a fun and perhaps warmer experience. Two months down, two to go: my time in Sweden is flying by, but writing this post helped me realize that I’ve learned a lot in the last two months. I hope this was at least a little bit helpful, and I hope it encourages you to take time to reflect…Now, I’ve gotta go check some of my goals off the list.
However! There is still half a semester to go. With that, I’ve made some goals/bucket list items I want to do before I return to the US. Hopefully writing down these things will keep me accountable to actually do them–and maybe give some inspiration for activities for others to try. Visit Christmas markets. I am so excited for this! It’s not quite Christmas time yet, but when it is…I’ll be there. I’ve heard Gamla Stan is the place to be. Embrace the coziness and the darkness. In a few weeks it will be dark at 4pm, and all the Swedes I’ve talked to have told me to embrace it. Light the candles, bundle up by the fireplace, drink some tea: cozy. Perfect my Saturday candy combination. Saturday candy = one of my favorite Swedish traditions, and I’m slowly making my way through trying the different types. Somehow I always end up with one or two types that I don’t like, so of course, I have to get new candy every Saturday–for research, of course. Try the cafes on my list. It’s a fun way to explore the city! Currently, Lillebrors Bageri is at the top.
I just tried Cafe Frankfurt in Kungsholmen…if you want a bagel, I’d recommend!
Try winter bathing + sauna. I did my first cold plunge this weekend and it was freezing…I think experiencing the cold water -> sauna would be a fun and perhaps warmer experience. Two months down, two to go: my time in Sweden is flying by, but writing this post helped me realize that I’ve learned a lot in the last two months. I hope this was at least a little bit helpful, and I hope it encourages you to take time to reflect…Now, I’ve gotta go check some of my goals off the list.